Losing loved ones is a difficult experience that everyone has to face. It is no coincidence that most people wonder whether it is possible to establish a connection with the dead in cases where they come in a dream. This is quite possible, since it is no coincidence that there is an opinion that death is not the end, but only one of the steps towards rebirth.
When a loved one dies, only physical contact with him is destroyed, but it cannot influence spiritual relationships. There are various scientific proofs that there is life after death. There are several known ways to establish contact with the deceased, and which one to choose and how to do it, everyone must decide for themselves.
Application of scientific achievements and techniques.
There is a theory that after the physical body dies, life does not stop, but continues, but only in a new form, which is the next stage. Today there is already some scientific evidence of this statement, which can be found in various serious research works. Taking this into account, a meeting with deceased loved ones turns out to be inevitable, since life has not stopped or ended.
Studying such material makes it easier to bear the pain of loss and to accept that a loved one continues to live, but simply in a different state, moving to a new stage of their existence. This allows us to believe that communication with the dead is possible.
Practical developments that confirm the theory that another reality begins beyond the line of death can include the electrovoice phenomenon (EGP) and similar developments and research.
Is it possible to talk to the deceased?
For example, how to talk to your dead mom in a dream or how to talk to your dad who died. There is no definite answer to this question. Scientists explain anomalous phenomena and ghosts either as hallucinations or fraud. Psychics, in turn, accuse them of stupidity, short-sightedness and narrow-mindedness. Religion stays a little to the side. Therefore, each of us must find for ourselves the answer to the question of whether it is possible to talk to a deceased person. To make the decision more reasonable, let’s consider three points of view in more detail. It's up to you to agree with one or not.
1. Most likely, you won’t succeed the first time. But don’t despair, keep trying and luck will smile on you. Perhaps in weeks or months. Do meditation and think again and again why you want to know how to talk to your deceased wife or other loved one. Why are you having this conversation? You are in danger, the wrong person may come to you, we may be too upset from communication. Perhaps, in trying to talk with the dead, you are running away from reality? If this is the case, it is better to seek support from the living rather than the departed.
2. Develop the power of your imagination. There are esoteric practices for this. Try changing the color of your clothing in your mind, keeping in mind its other characteristics. Imagine that you are moving something from place to place, monitoring the process, managing it.
3. The best assistant in meditation and developing your magical abilities is the ability to not think about anything. It sounds simple, but simply having a blank mind can cost you a lot of effort.
4. Get away from emotions. Lock them in a small closet and go to meet the deceased without them. Otherwise, the consequences may be unpredictable.
5. Don't just fall asleep, but focus on your desire. Turn on your imagination, remember about reality, about something that will not let you forget about yourself in a dream, always remember the question you want to ask.
Psychics say that if you do everything right, you will achieve your goal. So you know how to talk to the deceased in a dream. But remember, seeing a dead person in a dream is not a good omen. If he comes to you too often, it means that something is wrong with you or with his soul. Go to church or to his grave.
You can learn how to talk to a deceased person on paper by reading the instructions below. The advantage of talking on paper is that it is safer than in a dream and requires much less effort.
- First take some paper, the larger the sheet, the better. You will also need at least 4 thick, white candles without dyes or scents. By trying to evoke a spirit with a mint candle, you are insulting the deceased. Then prepare a small white plate, preferably a dessert plate, and a felt-tip pen, you can take a pen, not a pencil.
- Now do what is shown in many films. You may have even done this with friends as a child. Draw letters along the edge of the sheet of paper; they should be large, but not located next to each other.
- Place a candle in each corner of the sheet, which can be placed on the floor or table. If you have a good supply of candles, light the extra ones to the side. This will strengthen your connection with the world in spirit, because fire has been considered a mystical symbol since ancient times.
- Make a long mark or arrow on your plate. Focus. If you are doing summoning with someone else, make sure they believe in otherworldly powers. Mistrust can destroy any connection.
- Ask the first question. The best thing to do is ask if the spirit you called has arrived. Touch the saucer with your fingertips and throw all thoughts out of your head except questions. If the power comes to you, the saucer will begin to move. Traditionally, the most spiritually strong person communicates with the spirit.
Talk out loud.
Conversation is one of the simplest forms of such communication. You should communicate with the deceased as if he were in his physical body and was nearby. For communication, it is better to take a photo so as not to just talk to thin air, when it will be more difficult to concentrate.
The verbal message must be sent to your loved one with full confidence that he hears and understands everything. It is best to do this in a calm place where the person will not worry about the fact that someone might distract him or judge him, and where there are no external irritants.
You should start the conversation with the simplest possible questions that can be answered yes or no. It is best to ask the deceased to answer in some easy way. For example, if he wants to say no, then let it be silence, and if yes, then knock on the window or wall.
Gradually, as a person develops the ability to talk with the deceased, the questions may become more complex, and the method of answering will become more complex, but at the same time become more and more understandable to the questioner. There are people who claim that gradually the deceased begins to communicate with them also using language, as if he were alive, giving his answers no longer with signs, but with words.
In order for such communication to become as comfortable and fulfilling as possible, one should not allow a feeling of fear, any awkwardness or shame for one’s actions during it, as this will turn out to be a block on the path to establishing contact.
Also, you should not try to talk to the deceased as if he were somewhere far away; on the contrary, the entire conversation should take place as if he were nearby in the same room. There is no need to think about how to speak, in what sequence, but rather just communicate, speaking about your thoughts and experiences directly and sincerely.
Communication with someone who is no longer alive is at the same time very difficult and very simple, sincere and honest. It should not be feared or considered a sign of deviation from the norm. It is a natural need that allows you to maintain constant contact with loved ones.
Such communication with the world of the dead was practiced by ancient shamans at all times among many peoples, where the system of symbols and images of the surrounding nature (the sound of the wind, the chirping of birds), which accompanied such a ritual of communication, was endowed with a special sacred meaning. Any slightest change in the surrounding space could mean one or another message from the world of the ancestors.
How to contact the dead
1. Review the documented and scientifically supported clinical and empirical evidence that death is not the end.
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Such data proves that life continues after our physical body dies. In addition, this is clear evidence that sooner or later a meeting will be inevitable.
There is scientific evidence for this theory, as well as statistics and facts that you can find in serious scientific studies.
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Death is not the end, but simply a new beginning into the next stage of life - this is exactly what supporters of the theory that there is life after death claim.
2. Speak out loud
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One of the easiest ways to communicate with your deceased loved one is through a simple conversation.
Start communicating with him as if you were talking with a living person who is present next to you.
But you don't just have to talk into the air. Take a photo of the person you are trying to communicate with and send her or him your message, a verbal message.
Of course, it is best to do this in a quiet place where you can be alone and will not be disturbed by external distractions.
Start with very simple questions that require a “Yes” or “No” answer. Ask your invisible interlocutor to respond in a certain way, for example, the answer “yes” is knocking on the wall, and the answer no is silence.
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Try to let go of any feelings of fear, embarrassment, or any other feeling that may interfere with the communication process.
You should talk to your loved one as if he were present in the room with you. Don't think too much about what to say or in what order, just try to express your thoughts as sincerely and directly as possible.
Communication with those who have left us is the most difficult and at the same time the easiest of all existing types of communication.
Let go of all preconceived notions, thoughts, clear your mind and simply speak as if your loved one is here in front of you.
Dreams.
Dreams are a special world. Despite all the scientific breakthroughs, they remain hidden for full understanding. It is through dreams that very often close people after death try to contact those who are dear to them who remain on earth. During sleep, any barriers disappear, and a person is open to various spiritual relationships and messages from above.
There is a way to learn to control your dreams to some extent in order to increase the time you communicate with the dead. It consists of returning to the dream from which the awakening occurred. To do this, you should focus on the memories of the dream and imagine that it is repeating itself, holding this thought until you fall asleep. Such actions will allow you to return contact with the deceased. Having mastered this method, you will be able to establish a connection with the dead through dreams.
Soul
Before we ask ourselves the question of how to talk to a deceased person after death, let's understand the very concept of the “soul” with which you want to contact. From the Orthodox point of view, this is an immortal principle that the Lord God himself created. As the scriptures say, God created a body from the dust of the ground and breathed life into it. This breath is our soul.
It is believed that it is formless, but has intelligence; only our soul, moving into the physical body, which tends to wear out, that is, grow old, gives it the opportunity to grow and develop both mentally and physically.
Meditation.
In many ways, it is the ingrained stereotypes and rules that do not allow one to easily establish a connection with the dead, preventing them from recognizing that they are alive and have only lost their physical body. To establish it, you need to calm down and allow your inner world to open up to communication. Meditation in this case is an excellent way.
To meditate, you need to take a sitting position and choose an object that will become the subject of concentration. It is best if it is a stone or wood. Next, you should clear your mind of unnecessary thoughts and focus all your attention on the chosen object, thinking only about it.
This state should be maintained for as long as possible. As soon as you begin to be able to stop the creation for a long time, you can try to establish a connection with the deceased. To do this, you need to choose its image as an object of concentration, which you can either simply imagine in front of you or see in a photograph. The first method is more preferable, as it allows you to establish closer connections.
For a deeper immersion in meditative practice in communicating with the dead, it is recommended to hold in your hands some personal item of the deceased. The residual energy of the deceased will itself pull you into the necessary corridor to the image of the right person.
Item of the deceased.
The thing that was dear to the deceased is the source of his energy, which it nourished during his life. It allows you to establish a connection with its former owner through the transfer of this accumulated energy. Using it, you can significantly increase the effectiveness of any of the methods of establishing communication with the dead (mirrors, shadow magic, communication with the dead through the Master of the cemetery).
After losing a loved one, people often become desperate and look for a way to contact them through an intermediary such as a magician or psychic. Unfortunately, in most cases they end up in the hands of charlatans who only profit from the misfortune of others. For believers, another way to contact the deceased is prayer.
The author of this article deliberately does not consider methods of summoning the dead, possessing wax dolls, creating a mirror corridor, and similar life-threatening methods.
Church
Based on the fact that our soul is immortal, we should fear not those who kill our shell, but those who can destroy our soul in fiery hell. How to talk to a dead person? What does the church think about this?
First, you need to clearly define the purpose of your conversation. No one can prevent you from communicating with the dead, but, as the church believes, you will not receive an answer in reality. You can talk to them anywhere and however you want, but the best place to communicate is the temple. Our words in the usual form may not reach the addressee, but in the form of prayer they will certainly hear us. How to do it better? Come to the temple, light a candle for the repose and talk mentally with this person.