Why does a person dream of a dead person?
People have already found an explanation for this phenomenon. Often people dream about the dead for a reason. This can be explained with the help of dream books and the opinions of psychics. First of all, the dead person carries a message or warning. These could be messages about an impending disaster, an unpleasant situation or a sad event. Also, the deceased are able to talk about upcoming changes in life. To interpret them correctly, you must always write down the information that was in the dream. You can expand your understanding with the help of dream books. There are a lot of them, but there are no significant discrepancies in information.
Psychologists believe that people dream about the dead because on a subconscious level a person misses his relatives. This also indicates the high stress that the tragic event caused. In addition, deceased relatives are dreamed of by people who long for change, but are afraid to do something new.
Why does the deceased spouse visit in a dream?
The opposite situation is also possible, when the deceased husband dreams almost every day. This mainly happens when someone suddenly passes away. In dreams, the deceased husband may be trying to tell you something that he did not manage to tell you before the end of his life.
The deceased spouse may often appear in dreams if he is angry with you, in such a situation you need to ask him for forgiveness. Tell him that you are sorry for offending him.
Important! In the process of interpreting dreams in which deceased relatives are present, it is necessary to be guided by the details; only in this case can a reliable interpretation be given.
To understand what a dream with a deceased husband portends, read the dream books:
- Perhaps the deceased wants to warn or warn you about something.
- Try to remember everything he says, but you should not follow him, even if the deceased insists.
How to cope with the death of your husband is described in the video:
If about a year has passed since the death of your spouse, and you cannot calm down, talk to a psychologist or try to independently analyze the anxious feelings that overcome you.
The dead come to us in dreams when they consider it necessary, and we need to come to terms with this fact, and not call on them in vain, disturbing souls.
Usually those who lose such a relative often want to see her at least in a dream. But the phenomenon does not come and many wonder why the dead person does not dream, although in reality you think about him so often. The Dream Interpretation can rarely give an answer, but in fact there are several protections against such information included:
- mental;
- mystical.
You will learn from this article why your mother, who died very recently or, on the contrary, a very long time ago, does not come in a dream.
Dreams and the paranormal world
Psychics believe that the appearance of a deceased person in a dream speaks of the torment of the soul or wanderings around the world. However, this is only with those dead people who very often appear in dreams. Often the dead signal danger. Psychics also recommend paying attention to the lower limbs of the deceased. If instead of legs he has hooves, then this means that evil spirits have entered the dream. In such cases, a person needs to go to the temple after waking up and read prayers.
There are situations when the deceased does not come to the person. Therefore, many are interested in why a dead person does not dream. This phenomenon is quite common among people. After all, the soul of the deceased could find peace.
Reasons why you don’t dream about your deceased loved one
To find out why you don’t dream about your dead mother, father or other beloved relative whom you would like to see, you can turn to dream books or clairvoyants. Thoughts and internal dialogues with the deceased provide a short-term calming effect, and relatives turn to specialists in search of an explanation.
Clairvoyants claim that the image of a deceased loved one appearing in dreams is a sign of trouble. The soul is in torment, wandering in the world of the living. The dead person can warn the sleeping person about danger. For correct interpretation, you need to pay attention to the appearance of the deceased, his legs.
Hooves instead of human limbs, suspicious behavior, unkempt appearance, strange complexion speak of an evil spirit that has come in the form of the deceased. It is advisable to go to church after such a dream, light candles, and pray.
The deceased, thoughts about which take a lot of time, according to psychics, do not dream of under good circumstances. The absence of such images is a reason to be happy for your deceased loved one.
Reasons why a dead relative may not appear in visions:
- the soul has found peace, the deceased has no worries in the afterlife, there is no need to dream about beloved relatives;
- the sleeper is not in danger. The deceased does not come when everything is good and prosperous in the life of the sleeper;
- the sleeper fulfilled his duty. The dead come to remind the living of unfinished business - selling a house, taking care of children. If you don’t dream about your deceased loved one, it means that life is going well.
Sometimes clairvoyants arrange a seance, enter into a dialogue with the deceased and find out if everything is okay with him. Whether it is worth believing in a connection with the other world, those who seek help decide for themselves.
Clairvoyants share popular information about the dead. Their explanations are unscientific and unofficial facts. It has not yet been possible to prove the opposite.
The priest's answer
In religion, dreams and communication with loved ones who have died are interpreted in different ways. Most clergy are opponents of spiritualistic seances and communication with spirits; those living on Earth are not allowed to comprehend the secret of the afterlife. There is no need to look into places where a person does not belong.
In the Christian religion, images that come in dreams are considered the tricks of demons. In the Orthodox lives of saints, dozens of examples are described when, under the guise of a beloved deceased relative, the devil tempted and seduced people with dangerous and shameful actions. The righteous have a greater risk of seeing images of evil spirits. Priests consider it wrong to be interested in the question of why deceased loved ones do not dream: it should not arise. But to parishioners who are sincerely concerned about the fate of the soul of a deceased relative, the priest gives answers:
- According to the priest, deceased relatives may not dream about it if the soul is at rest, everything is fine in the afterlife, the angels protect it;
- when you think about a loved one for a long time, it is better to pray for him in church, at home, and not wait for him to come in a dream;
- departed souls do not need to communicate with the world of the living.
Priests advise parishioners not to mourn the dead.
The pain and suffering of loved ones on Earth negatively affects the souls of the deceased.
It is better to pray for the deceased and remember him without sadness, but with joy. Visit the grave, light candles for the repose, read prayers.
Take care of the burial: this will show the deceased that they remember him, honor him and take care of his ashes, and it will calm the person who has experienced the loss, give him strength and confidence that everything was done correctly.
Psychologist's explanation
A person who has buried a deceased relative experiences acute grief and denies what is happening. An emptiness forms in the soul, and he tries to drown it out, fill it. People take the loss of loved ones seriously and want to see and talk with the deceased, at least in a dream.
If you don’t dream about it, apathy and depression develop, and you need to turn to psychologists. According to experts in the field of mental trauma, in a dream a person experiences real-life events. The desired appears in a changed form, coming true during visions. The absence of an image of the beloved deceased speaks of the peace of mind of the sleeper.
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A subtle mental organization and a tendency to experience lead to the likelihood of dreams with the image of the deceased. Another option is mental protection. A funeral is a deep trauma. The psyche functions under overload and erases unwanted and traumatic images and events from memory. After burying a loved one, relatives forget the details of the event. A similar situation occurs in a dream. By protecting the nerves, the psyche does not reproduce difficult thoughts and images.
Psychologists advise mentally forgiving the deceased and letting your loved one go in peace.
It will take time, the grief of loss will be forgotten and the person will enjoy life. This path, according to experts, is more beneficial for the psyche than trying to see the deceased.
Why don't you dream about the dead?
Often relatives or close friends come to dreams. But the question “why don’t you dream about your dead mother” is also quite common among people. There are a lot of explanations from psychics. Common explanations for why you don’t dream about the dead:
- The soul of the deceased has already found peace. This is the most common reason why you don’t dream about the dead. After all, they come if they are still in the world of people. However, they can only be seen in dreams.
- The person is not in danger of trouble. Most dreams signal danger. If she does not threaten a person, then the deceased will not come in a dream. This also suggests that the person will not have drastic changes in life, because the dead warn about such events.
- The man fulfilled his duty to his relative. If there were good relationships between people and they did good to each other, then the deceased will not appear in dreams.
- The deceased was a good person; evil spirits cannot use his image for their own purposes. Often, evil spirits can come under the guise of a deceased person and decide to have fun with a relative of the deceased.
Such reasons fully explain why we don’t dream about the dead. However, these interpretations are not officially recognized and are considered unscientific. Believe in them or not, decide for yourself. A person must first think rationally. You cannot always rely on the explanations of psychics. However, all explanations have a right to exist.
Why the deceased does not dream after the funeral: opinions of priests and parapsychologists
People often turn to clergy, parapsychologists and psychics with questions about why you don’t dream about your dead mother, why you don’t dream about your mother’s dead son, or why you don’t dream about your dead loved one.
We understand that neither a priest, nor a parapsychologist, and certainly not a psychic, knows the exact answer. But the absence of deceased relatives in dreams cannot but upset.
We studied information from various sources, collected popular superstitions on this matter, interviewed experts and decided to talk about the most popular versions.
Psychologists' opinion
Most professionals believe that dreams cannot be trusted. They can only be interpreted and interpreted to suit a person’s life. After all, dreams are the work of the subconscious. Many people ask the question: “If mom died, why don’t I dream?” There is an explanation for this question. Dreams are a continuation of all human experiences from the real world. Therefore, you should not look for mystical explanations in the question “why don’t you dream about the dead.” Often, if the deceased does not come, this indicates moral peace. This also means that the stress experienced is forgotten by the body.
Modern man knows practically nothing about the afterlife. At a minimum, because it is impossible for people to confirm or deny its existence. Psychologists also believe that excessive passion for dream interpretation has a negative impact on the psyche.
I don’t dream about a deceased loved one: interpretation from a dream book
1.1 If this does not happen
You should not think that the events described above must necessarily happen. There is no need to worry if a person does not come into your dream after death. A soul that has found peace worries about you just as much as you worry about it. The soul does not want to enter dreams when it feels that such reminders of itself will only harm you, bring back old memories, make you suffer and think about bad things.
Some argue that the soul can also harbor a grudge against a living person if during his lifetime he somehow offended her. If a quarrel occurred recently and it haunts you, try to calm down and relax. Throw away all negativity and apologize to the deceased. Tell him that you yourself forgive past grievances, wish him to find peace.
If you can’t remember the quarrel, perhaps the deceased simply does not want to disturb the living again.
The death of a mother and father is terrible for a child, as is the death of children for parents. The dead understand your experiences and do not want to repeat them, appearing to you again and again. Come to terms with what happened, remember all the pleasant things associated with a dear person (husband, son, father). It may appear for the first time only after a year or even two, when you have completely let go of difficult thoughts and bad memories.
The grief in my soul is still bitter. You deny the fact that your loved one died mercilessly. You think about him all day long, but at night, alas, you don’t dream about him.
These are the hardest questions to answer.
The truth can not calm down, but even more upset the grieving person.
I visited many forums where a similar problem was discussed.
Let me make public the points of view of their participants.
Opinion 1.
When my loved one died, I went crazy.
I looked through his photos, gifts and cards. In a fit of madness, she sent messages to a social network.
I kept hoping that he would answer me.
As the attending doctor later told me, the psyche is trying not to traumatize us again.
It blocks dreams and thoughts that can have a detrimental effect on your health.
A different point of view.
When my grandmother was dying, she promised that she would come.
Apparently, she was trying to calm us down in this way.
I often thought about her, remembered our intimate conversations.
All in vain. She did not appear in dreams.
It was only when I was invited to the party that she came, anxiously blocking my path.
The next morning I felt bad and didn’t go anywhere.
A little later I was informed that all those who were in the car died on the spot.
A terrible accident occurred.
Granny, it was you who saved me (I cry bitterly).
One more opinion.
A dead person cannot appear in your dreams at will.
You can’t call him with thoughts. Only magic is capable of this, but even this is beyond the control of the fakir.
What happens there - outside of our hectic life? Is it possible to solve it?
But I am convinced that a dead person does not completely belong to himself.
God's Kingdom (or simply the unknown world) has its own rules.
But the connection with us still remains. And it's obvious!
Often, our deceased relatives turn into guardian angels and dream of us in fatal moments of a helpless life.
To warn about something, and also (as many believe) to remind that the time has come to remember by ordering a Prayer Service for the Repose of the Soul.
The material was prepared by me, Edwin Vostryakovsky.
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Internal contradiction and insincerity
The deceased father or husband will never be dreamed of by those who resist their appearance. Moreover, if he was hated and his death caused only a feeling of relief. It is for this reason that the deceased never comes to those who secretly rejoiced at their death and the fact that the worries and difficulties associated with him were a thing of the past. This is the most important reason why you don’t dream about your deceased parents, dad or husband.
But those who sincerely loved a relative may not see him because he does not consider it necessary. For example, if you ask him a question about a difficult situation and you don’t dream about dad or mom, it means that they consider you independent and spiritually strong people who will find the answer to all questions themselves. But in the event of a truly difficult life situation, they can certainly appear in a dream to warn you about a risky step or its consequences. Usually they directly talk about danger or that grief awaits a person.
Why do you dream about a dad who died and looks sternly at you? He wants to protect him from danger and troubles, which he certainly did not approve of during his lifetime.
After such a vision, magicians advise canceling all important or risky decisions and simply postponing them indefinitely, since in reality there may be an unexpected and unfavorable turn of events that was not expected.
